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Sexual Health & Wellness
Summer is the season of many fun activities; road trips, beach days, pool parties and of course, summer flings. We’ve all seen those summer romances in Hollywood movies that typically include a young couple, long nights and sexual encounters of an adventurous type. Unfortunately, what these movies fail to portray is the less than sexy truth behind all that summer loving.
I’m talking about the sweaty, sticky and smelly bodies, sand on every inch of your skin (especially when it makes its way to your intimate areas) and the heat exhaustion that leaves your sex drive at an all-time low. But what if I told you it’s possible to have summer sex whether it be with a fling or with your current partner(s) that includes all the pleasure, but minus the disagreeable side effects of hot weather?
So forget the summer utopian romances you see on the big screen. I want to keep it real and acknowledge all the unwanted messiness of summer sexual encounters (like you see in my porn for women 😉), but also let you know whether your steamy sessions include penises or vaginas only, or a mix of both, we’ve got you covered. With my sweat free summer sex guide I’m going to give you tips on how to keep things arousing yet cool no matter who your partner(s) is or are.
Temperature play is a common form of BDSM sensual play, but is also a simple way to enhance foreplay. Using ice is an easy and fun way to cool your bodies down before engaging in sexual activities that really turn up the heat. Take a piece of ice (or a few as they may melt fast) and slowly explore different parts of each other’s erogenous zones. Try starting from the top down; touching the ears and moving down towards the neck before making your way to the nipples and stomach, then finally teasing with the inner thighs. If the ice is small enough, you can put it in your mouth and suck on it before giving your partner oral sex.
If you’ve never heard of sex toys made out of glass, then summer is the perfect time to try them out. Glass sex toys whether dildos, penis rings or butt plugs, are the best toys for temperature play during those hot summer months. They are hypoallergenic, easy to clean and depending on the glass, highly resistant to temperature changes. When looking for a glass toy specifically to cool down, look for those made out of borosilicate glass which sometimes bears the name of ‘Pyrex’ (you might be thinking of those baking dishes your mom cooks casseroles in, this is exactly that). This type of glass has boron trioxide which allows it to withstand extreme changes in temperature. Ok enough science, let’s get to the fun part…
Cool your glass toy down by submerging it into water or by using the fridge (making sure not to go below the recommended temperature of your specific toy) and prepare for the ultimate sensation play. If you found pleasure messing around with ice, then begin rubbing the toy in the same places you tried before. As you get comfortable you can stick it inside your body for a sexually stimulating rush from head to toe.
Mutual Masturbation is the way to go. Solo sessions with your partner(s) can be extremely arousing and can be done in multiple ways. You can let the exhibitionist in you run free while your partner(s) watches you pleasure yourself and takes their seat as a lusting voyeur; or vice versa. You can also choose to be both, simultaneously watching and being watched. Another titillating way to engage in mutual masturbation play is by laying side by side and watching an erotic film together. If your desire for your partner(s) becomes too much then keep reading because I’ve got some juicy tips to be enjoyed together coming your way.
We all know that feeling of stepping into the house barefoot on a hot summer day. Whether your house is lined with wood, stone, tile or vinyl the minute your feet hit the ground it’s an instant lower body cool down. So why not utilize those sleek chilly floors to turn down the heat all over for some super fresh full body pleasure? So forget the bed, go on and take your sexy time down to the ground.
Now if the floor is not an option, do not worry. An effortless way to get the all over cool down without the pain of the hard ground is by simply popping your sheets into the freezer before making your bed. I suggest placing them into a plastic freezer bag prior because even if you’re a fan of wetness, you may not be of sogginess and that’s exactly what your sheets will be.
Last but not least, one of the most simple ways to get frisky during summer without the sweat is by getting intimate under or next to a fan. Not everyone has the luxury of air conditioning, and cranking up the AC can be costly; for this reason a fan is the perfect fix. So turn that fan on high & your imagination along with it to feel like you’re feeling the sweet ocean breeze from the comfort of your home.
