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Conversation Guides

We're redefining 'the talk'. It's time to have The Porn Conversation at home. Parents and trusted adults, if you are ready to have The Porn Conversation but have no clue what to say, here are three age-appropriate guides to help. For any feedback or reviews, contact us here.

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8 to 11-years-old
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12 to 15-years-old
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+16 years-old
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Erika's no-go list

The internet can be a wonderful tool for teens to learn, create and grow, to find and share interests, and communicate with friends, but it can be a risky place if misused.
Just as you can teach safer sex practices to your teen, you can teach safer online practices.

By speaking candidly to our children about the dangers of the misuse of the internet and social media, we raise awareness of the presence of cyberbullying, sexual predators, online grooming, blackmail, digital abuse, and image-based sexual abuse - also known as “revenge porn”.

The truth is, what goes online, stays online. Through thoughtful dialogue we encourage our children to be mindful of their actions online and raise awareness about not only the dangers, but the support available to them.

Here are a few apps and sites we believe families should be aware of:
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    Adam4Adam
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    Badoo
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    Chatroulette
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    Discord
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    Fiesta
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    Grindr
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    Hot or Not
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    Holla
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    Houseparty
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    Instagram
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    Kik
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    Live.me
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    Meet.me
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    Omeglee
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    OnlyFans
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    Paltalk
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    Skout
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    Snapchat
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    Telegram
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    Tiktok
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    Tinder
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    Tumblr
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    Whatsapp
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    Whisper
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    Wishbone
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    Yubo

What families say

As a single dad I didn't know where to begin when speaking with my children about porn and sex. The Conversation Guides were age-appropriate and made the experience smoother than I imagined. Thank you!
Anders E.
Dad to a 12 & 16 year-old, Sweden
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The Porn Conversation gave me the necessary tools to start and continue the conversation with my daughter in a sex-positive way.
Ashley K.
Mom to a 12 year-old, United States
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My partner and I struggled to know how to talk to our children about porn when we found out our kid was searching for it. The Conversation Guide helped us prepare for these necessary conversations.
Miguel F.
Dad to a 8, 10 & 13 year-old, Brazil
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I consider myself a sex-positive parent and The Porn Conversation touched on some critical topics I hadn't thought to talk to my teens about. It guided my family through some impactful conversations.
Renee S.
Mom to teens, United Kingdom
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Resources

How do we talk to teens about sex in a world of porn?

The Guardian
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If You Ignore Porn, You Aren't Teaching Sex Ed

The New York Times
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How A Feminist Porn Director Gives Her Daughters “The Talk”

Refinery29
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What Teenagers Are Learning From Porn

The New York Times
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When it Comes to Porn’s Damaging Effects, Millennials and Gen Z Feminists are United

The Guardian
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